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Andrea Shane
Feel wrong and Coming out
Relationship with Fam, Friend and lover.
- About parents and Friend
- Do you have a bf?
Dream and Message

Andrea Shane

Name：Andrea Shane

Birthday：12/29, 1995

Current：Fresh Grade in University

The reasonWhy fresh this year：Worked for making and saving tuition.

Surgery：Not yet but inject female hormone.

Personality：Funny, Friendly , kindness, joyful as a person and very positive.

Self-Introduction：Nice to meet you. I am Andrea of Mandaue City, Cebu. I am a proud member of LGBT. I am young transgender who has a personality of being kind, funny, joyful and very understanding a person.

Minato：It’s very nice to meet you 😀

Andrea：Me too 😀

Cheers!!

Feel wrong and Coming out

The trigger she noticed

Minato：When did you find it that you are not a boy?

Andrea：Ever since when I am 5 years old, very young, I noticed it already that I feel different than any other boys and I act very lazy and feminine.

Minato：Why did you notice it ?

Andrea：It’s because my friends are mostly girls. I feel like I have a female heart.

Minato：How did you feel about yourself when you noticed it?

Andrea：At first I feel like I’m different and also it’s difficult. For me the difficult is I am scared that people will not accept who I am and I might feel rejection.

Minato：Wow, you felt rejection at 5 years old…..

Andrea：

Minato：You also like selfie…. I mean Most Filipina love it…

Andrea：

Minato： (harrumph)(harrumph)

Andrea：Can I start Facebook-live?

Minato：yeah….sure tho…

Andrea：

About Being gay.

Minato：Whom did you tell it at first?

Andrea：Well My mother. It was scared. Just scared. I told her that I feel like a girl when I was 5.

Minato：Didn’t you remember it? Because you’re so young.

Andrea：I remember. She can’t accept me at first. Because she believes that being gay is a sin. “Andrea, you are not my child. ” she is angry to me.

Minato：It’s too sad that’s why you remember clearly.

Andrea：Yeah , She accept me later on.

Minato：How about your friend?

Andrea：My female accepted me. My male friends can’t accept me. Some says I am freak and some had been bullying me.

Minato：How did they bully you ?

Andrea：Discriminate and even doing physical abuse. Punch and spank.

Minato：That’s too sad….

Andrea：Yes, I also feel anxiety and depression.

Minato：How about your jr high and high school?

Andrea：I was accepted and start been trans. I was bullied but not too much and that time I already have many friends.

Difference between gay and trans

Minato：What the difference between gay and trans?

Andrea：Difference between gay and transgender is that gay is female at heart but gayish and manly and not feminine not like a transgender who is physically a woman and also female at heart.

Relationship with Fam, Friend and lover.

About parents and Friend

Minato：How do your parents think as you?

Andrea：Now They think of me and treat me like a real woman.

Minato：Do you have any brothers and sisters ?

Andrea：2 older brothers. I am the youngest and only female. They accepted me.

Minato：How do friends think as you? Do you have a lot of female friends?

Andrea：They accept me and support me. Both female and male.

Do you have a bf?

Minato：Do you have a boyfriend?

Andrea：I am single right now.

Minato：Have you ever had a boyfriend?

Andrea：Yeah. He is a straight and Japanese-filipino.

I had 3 ex bf and last boyfriend was my longest relationship.

Minato：How long?

Andrea：One and a half.

Minato：It’s quite long and does it …

Andrea：Another question, Please. I don’t wanna talk about him any more. I am sorry . . .

Dream and Message

About living as trans until die.

Minato：How do you think about you will live as a transgender until you die.

Andrea：I will not regret it because it was the most beautiful thing and the freedom ever happened into my life.

Minato：What is your dream?

Andrea：My dream is to become a future Flight Attendant.

Minato：If you could be a Flight Attendant, This will be the first transgender to work in an airline company.

Andrea： I hope so.

Message for the people confused about gender

It’s a good thing if you will educate and explore yourselves to someone like us.

Message from her, personally

I am willing to give advice to everyone needs it and I am waiting for many invitations from nice people. For me, Nice people is someone who will accept me, be friendly and open about me.

Minato：All interviews done!!! Thank you very much!!!

Andrea：(applause) yeah